What’s So Important About Feeling Good?

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feeling goodI know most of you savvy creators are wondering why I would even ask that question. It’s becoming pretty well established that our purpose in this life is to create our own circumstances and to feel good in the process. And, most know by now that we are creating those improved situations by the thoughts we think, our beliefs (sometimes unconscious) and our expectations for ourselves. We are also acknowledging, for the most part, that we cannot create improvement in our lives with a low vibration, that is, negative emotion. Our vibration, the feelings we’re emitting, must be a match to our desires if we are to Allow them into our lives.

This is pretty basic Law of Attraction stuff. And, most of us know, even if we aren’t aware of it all of the time, that the things we desire, that we want to create, our incredible goals, are all there because we think we will feel good, or even better, when we have them. Our goals are completely based on making ourselves feel better. That is what we want, our ultimate desire. Whether we think feeling better means having a huge bank account, a loving romantic relationship, good friends, time with our families, doing great work, it is all about giving ourselves a reason to feel better.

In my book, “How to Allow”, I refer to this as sometimes the Catch-22 of being deliberate creators. We want what we want to feel better and we think we can only feel better when we get it. Yet, unless we feel better before we get it, we won’t get it.

Seems almost impossible to pull off but clearly it’s not, as many of us are creating amazing things in our lives, some more than others, and some of us inconsistently, but it happens. We do get ourselves to that place that is a match to our desires sometimes, and our desires do manifest into our lives.

I mentioned in one recent post that I really feel that the positive energy, which is a match to our desires, is moving a lot more quickly than it was even a couple of years ago. Many, many more people are aware, more people are evolving and expanding, and there’s actually much more positive energy to link up with than before. This is such a good thing because, for one, it makes life easier and manifestations can be quicker, and, secondly, because that murky negative, feeling bad energy doesn’t create nearly as quickly. We still have plenty of time to realize that we’re out of alignment, not very high on the emotional scale and make an adjustment. It helps me immensely to remember this when I find myself in a funk. Just gotta get out of the funk. Don’t panic, just move yourself gradually out of it and there are lots of ways of doing that, which I make it a practice of doing and teaching. But, it’s pretty clear that most of us are much more obsessed with our own goals, our projects, the things we want to bring into our lives, than the thought of feeling good.

Of course, we want to feel good. It’s just that most of our thoughts and accompanying emotions are focused upon GETTING THESE DESIRES, AND AS SOON AS POSSIBLE. So, why my question about the importance of feeling good? I’m only calling it a trick question because by now it should be so obvious to all of us (and I throw myself into that category), that we need to sometimes let the goal-oriented focus simmer down a bit. I’m not suggesting that we abandon our goals. They are what get us out of bed in the morning and sometimes, only sometimes, the very act of focusing upon them does evoke that good feeling vibe we’re hoping to create.

What I am suggesting, and what I’ve had a eureka moment about recently, is that we can sometimes completely focus upon feeling good, and remove our focus from everything else. I admit, I have not been able to do that often in the past. Mostly, I would be thinking that I need to move up the emotional scale or I’m going to stay right where I am and my desires are NOT coming into my life. Yet, things are changing.

I have found myself in that zone, the sweet spot, the place where you just feel like you are invincible, can do or have anything. You’re listening to good music, dancing in your car, laughing over a funny video you saw on Facebook, spending time with someone you love, doing something for someone else that just feels so good to do, and suddenly this momentum has been created where the seas are parting for you.

You’re finding the perfect parking space in a crowded shopping center, right in front of the store you’re heading for, people you don’t know are complementing you on our clothes, strangers are telling you you’re a breath of fresh air, people are contacting you from “out of the blue” that are just so good to connect with. People are doing nice things for you and they are not what you would have expected before. It all seems to be coming from some parallel dimension. It almost feels otherworldly.

The point of this brief rampage of appreciation is that when you have a day, or an afternoon, like that you realize again what it’s like to feel that invincibility, that happiness just because you feel happy. Nothing big has happened, yet you just feel so good. It just feels soooo good. When you are able to get yourself into that place, absent any great news or accomplishments, you can separate the goal of feeling good for its own sake from the feeling good in order to allow in your desires.

And, that’s what I’m finally able to embrace for its own sake, that separation of feeling good just to feel good from I’ve got to move myself up the emotional scale to get what I want, to change my circumstances for the better. And, the most magnificent part of this, besides just feeling great more and more of the time, is that feeling great without strings attached, causes those goals, which you do deserve and are very worthy of, to come into your life much more quickly. When you’re trying to feel good with a purpose (deliberate creation of your goals), that’s great, yet it’s not nearly as pure a vibration as feeling good because it just feels good.

And then, those things that you want are moving at warp speed into your life. So, is it possible to separate feeling good for it’s own sake from trying to create what you want in your life?

Absolutely, and the more you can just relax into feeling good, by doing whatever feels good to you, leaving everyone else out of it, the more you are becoming a master of deliberate creation. And, you will be one of those people that everyone is wondering about. Hey, what happened to him? What happened to her? It’s like every door opens for them so easily. They are getting just what they want. They have such fun lives.

And, you will.

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Susan Shearer Young is the author of “How to Allow—Working with the Law of Attraction to Allow Your Natural Well-Being—A Simple System for Creating the Life You Want Starting Today,” winner of Best Law of Attraction Book for 2012, a Law of Attraction Leaders Award. She is a former corporate lawyer and graduate of Harvard Law School, who now provides individual coaching based on the Law of Attraction, the Art of Allowing and managing your vibration. Readers and clients have shared incredible results from the system offered in “How to Allow.” Susan regularly posts leading edge articles on achieving vibrational alignment with your desires and deliberately creating your life experiences at www.howtoallow.net and has been a guest contributor to other sites. She has also appeared on the LOA Radio Network, hosted by Constance Arnold, and Blog Post Radio.

About Susan Shearer Young

Susan Shearer Young is the author of “How to Allow—Working with the Law of Attraction to Allow Your Natural Well-Being—A Simple System for Creating the Life You Want Starting Today,” winner of Best Law of Attraction Book for 2012, a Law of Attraction Leaders Award. She is a former corporate lawyer and graduate of Harvard Law School, who now provides individual coaching based on the Law of Attraction, the Art of Allowing and managing your vibration. Readers and clients have shared incredible results from the system offered in “How to Allow.” Susan regularly posts leading edge articles on achieving vibrational alignment with your desires and deliberately creating your life experiences at www.howtoallow.net and has been a guest contributor to other sites. She has also appeared on the LOA Radio Network, hosted by Constance Arnold, and Blog Post Radio.

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